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One of the Gifts of Adult ADD - Interpersonal Insight After reading an entire book about dyslexia in adults, I decided to look a little further into what A.D.D was really about. It is my opinion that almost everyone creative or inquisitive about challenging the status quo, has a mild form of A.D.D and there's nothing wrong with that. A.D.D is a word that gets tossed around a lot when it comes to troubled children and their parents, it stands for attention deficit disorder. I find it interesting that we decided to come up with a term that includes the word "disorder" for anyone that was a little different? Maybe it's not the child that has the problem but something else? To me, it's not really a disorder if it is channeled in the right way. In just a moment ,you will hear about one of the gifts for anyone with adult A.D.D can have to offer others and the world. Most people with adult A.D.D have learned to look at life, to the day to day ins and outs of life through I different lens. Because of this we tend to be highly creative, versatile and ingenious. Yes, you heard me correctly, ingenious. I think the famous Albert Einstein was labeled by his teachers as incorrigible, learning disabled and dim-witted, which couldn't be farther from the truth. He naturally saw and looked at life from a different perspective! Interpersonal-Insight simply means that adults with A.D.D can more easily connect with another person's unconscious desires or needs. This means that the other person is unaware (unconscious) of their needs or desires. Some adults with A.D.D can be viewed as "walking therapists" because they see what is underneath the image or facade that many people carry to get through life. The three gifts of adults A.D.D are: 1. They are trained in using a stream of fantasy and impression. What does that mean? To me, it means that we use our imagination to create and think of ideal scenes or scenarios. Impressions, of the way things are as opposed to the way things may seem to the average on looker. 2. The ability to see in-authenticity and phoniness in people, which can really help you in business dealings, sales, management, marketing and relationships. For example, I was at an event a few years ago in Whistler and a young man asked to take me to dinner, I agreed. He had his ring on his right hand but it looked like a wedding ring, when I asked him where he got the ring he didn't know what to say and quickly changed the subject. Later on during the "date' he proceeded to take out his wallet and show me a picture of his wife and baby girl and made up some story of how he was going to tell me. I told him how I felt about his blatant in-authenticity and that was that. 3. Are good at revealing thoughts, emotions, and concerns openly-- which also created the space for others to do the same. Cynthia Farsadi I assist many people with making an income through utilizing a simple, proven business model. Find out more by visiting my website and download a FREE AUDIO at the bottom of the page. Fill out the web-form
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